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The time has come, I think, for me to address the countless misconceptions that I encounter nearly every day while writing and following Reinette. While I have vented verbally to many, on many occasions, I have decided to collect all the points I can recall here.

If you do not like Reinette? I would read no further. After all, you might learn something.

Reinette is not a 'Mary Sue'. She is(was) an actual, true, flawed and fully realized woman that left her mark on many lives around her and history itself. Yes, some of these traits were 'listed off' in a rather fast fashion in the episode but that made them no less true. She was not created as the 'anti Rose' or someone to show her up or to hurt her feelings. But she was flawed as well, and some of that was even there quite clearly in the episode if watched. Her ambition, her curiosity and even her temper when challenged. The fact that she could walk into his mind is most often used in the Mary Sue defense. I point out that the Doctor walked Reinette's mind FIRST when she was a child, and like all children learn other languages with ease? I believe this planted the seed. The real woman spoke FIVE languages. By the time she learned to walk the Doctor's mind it became her natural sixth.

Her name is not Pompawhore or Pompaho or even Grrrrr Reinette. Her name was Jeanne Antionette Poisson and by the end of her life she was even further elevated from her title as Marquise to an actual Duchess. Now, she was ACTUALLY mocked for her name in her time, which was French for fish. When she became Louis' lover the Court wasted no time making witticisms about it. But that is another story.

She hated Rose. No, Reinette did NOT hate Rose. Indeed they shared a moment of true understanding in the ship, that contained that lovely, stunning line that he was 'worth the monsters'. They both knew how the other felt. There was no 'cat fight'. No one cried. They were both strong women that found something to respect in the other. Yet in countless things I read Reinette hated her. This makes no logical sense whatsoever and is absolutely baseless.

That said, yes. Reinette did call Rose a child. And to be fair, at that point in her life? Rose was. At that age, 32, Reinette had now married. She bore a son only to bury him before he was a year old and a daughter that had passed away just before she had seen Rose. She had suffered anywhere from 4-5 miscarriages depending on historical record. She witnessed war and loved and lost a king. Yes, Rose was a child to her perception. This does not make Reinette a 'bitch'. People often warp this scene to suggest the entire nature of her personality, ripping it from its context.

Really, what was the big deal, she only knew him a DAY! Actually, no. The Doctor experienced Reinette's life in the course of a day. She knew the Doctor through near the whole of her life. He was with her, in some form her fashion, from the age of seven until the age of thirty-seven. THIRTY years. Not every day, no. But childhood, the beginning of womanhood, the even of her greatest accomplishment and then very near the end. He was there, a part of the experience. THIRTY YEARS. So why is her journey an less profound than Rose's? Why should she matter so much less. Why do they have to be weighed, one again the other, at all?

Oh, and by the way? Reinette kissed the Doctor. Not the other way around. Reinette. Kissed. The Doctor. He just sort of actively stood about and allowed it to happen. And, to be completely fair? She knew nothing at all about Rose other than that she was the vague shadow of a face in a fireplace that until THAT point? Was a childhood friend. So really, her kissing the Doctor could have nothing whatsoever to do with Rose at all. Her childhood hero was in front of her. Most likely now the night in all her growing up fairytales. She kissed him. I can think of few people who would not have seized that opportunity. Should people take issue that the DOCTOR allowed himself to be kissed? Perhaps, I suppose. But to that point he was really nothing more than a fanboy of a historical person he admired (and since the episode was written for Nine who was SUCH a fanboy?) An that the kiss while intimate was brief? I hardly think so.

She is a whore. This is said far more often than really is polite. She was a King's mistress, yes. But exclusively. An truly the physical aspects of sex were actually a challenge for Reintte and her health the whole of her life and ultimately ended her relationship with Louis. As for the portrayal of her relationship with the Doctor? She went for what she wanted. With a man she stated quite openly that she loved. What exactly is the problem?

Reinette lived in the 1700's which is the EIGHTEENTH century and she did NOT live during the Revolution. Well, that's all I really have to say on that one. Moving on.

Madame DE Pompadour Not du. DE.

She's such a bitch. The Doctor was trapped. He was already beginning to resign himself to that fate and what it would mean for the time being. But Reinette had seen into his mind and into his heart. To his love of the sky and the stars, his companions and his TARDIS. And even though she knew it would break her heart, to the point she could not bear to 'wish him luck' she gave it all back to him, and sent the man she loved home. It was the ultimate selfless act. Where, exactly, is the bitch?

These are just things I can assert by speaking of Reinette and Reinette alone. There are countless other points I could make. That in thinking of saving Reinette on the end, it did NOT mean the Doctor STOPPED thinking of Rose. They do not have to be intertwined acts. That there is the VERY REAL possibility that Reinette spent far more time with the Doctor that carried far more meaning. Five minutes spent with Mickey and Rose allowed the child Reinette to age from child to woman. How would the time at the Yew Tree ball and their last moments spent together translate to. That yes, I do firmly believe that they slept together but that was far from the most intimate thing that was shared.

That Reinette in no way deserves the hate and disdain that has been heaped on her.

Any questions?

Date: 2010-05-24 01:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elevenwho.livejournal.com
Well said. Reinette gets too much baseless hatred in fandom. And a lot of it is based in a creepy misogyny that the (often) female fans usually wave off with a "lolz I'm just a fangirl" kind of disclaimer.

Anyway, Reinette is a fascinating character for a woman who was on screen for about 2/3 of one episode. And a fascinating historical person as well. You know I think you do well by her with all the research and time and love you put in. It's good to know she's got you as her defender, too.

Date: 2010-05-24 01:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
Hugs hugs. There is nothing I hate more than the "I hate her but have no real reason to I just hate her to hate her' line.

Date: 2010-05-24 01:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elevenwho.livejournal.com
I honestly might hate the "I hate her because she's terrible to Rose" mentality. It's better to have a gut feeling against someone than to insert things that never happened and use it to justify hatred.

Date: 2010-05-24 01:53 am (UTC)

Date: 2010-05-24 03:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poshmouthytart.livejournal.com
WORD.

Double word to the whore bit. Just because a woman falls in love with someone/sleeps with someone/is comfortable with sex/exists DOES NOT MAKE HER A WHORE.

Relevant account is sooooo bloody relevant.

Date: 2010-05-24 04:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
Hi relevant account with your relevantness!

Are we posting pretty icons now?
Edited Date: 2010-05-24 04:44 am (UTC)

Date: 2010-05-24 04:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poshmouthytart.livejournal.com
Yes. Yes we are.
Edited Date: 2010-05-24 04:45 pm (UTC)

Date: 2010-05-27 04:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
JUST the night? Where is your ambition?

Date: 2010-05-27 06:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poshmouthytart.livejournal.com
Hey, a girl's fingers get tired of pinging after a while!

Date: 2010-05-28 04:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poshmouthytart.livejournal.com
Nah, I've just got my second wind!

Date: 2010-05-24 05:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daughterof-evil.livejournal.com
I honestly didn't know there was hate, but I loved the hell out of her.

And Ten/Reinette are still my Dr. Who OTP.

Date: 2010-05-24 05:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
Oh so much hate. The world is crazy with it.

I however? ADORE you.

Hugs.

Date: 2010-05-24 05:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daughterof-evil.livejournal.com
This is why I can't do fandom anymore. Too much anger, not enough joy.

Right back at you.

Hugs! &hearts

Date: 2010-05-24 07:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] savagestime.livejournal.com
...people really take issue with Reinette calling Rose a child? Really?

Date: 2010-05-26 10:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
They really, really do. How crazy is that??

HUGS YOU UP TIGHT.

Date: 2010-05-27 12:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] savagestime.livejournal.com
It seems such a strange thing to be upset about! Given their relative places in their lives, it made perfect sense to me.

HUGS YOU FOREVER.

Date: 2010-05-27 12:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
Dear Awesome,

We need to do something or something. I miss you.

Love, Me

Date: 2010-05-27 01:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] savagestime.livejournal.com
Dear frood,

As you are pretty hoopy, I should like to do that also. When you are absent, I am sad.

Love,
Moi

Date: 2010-05-24 08:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rude-not-ginger.livejournal.com
Is River Song your wife?

Date: 2010-05-26 10:54 pm (UTC)

Date: 2010-05-24 09:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dontfearmebaby.livejournal.com
/ninjas in

I have nothing but loved Reinette and I wholeheartedly agree with this post.

/ninjas out

Date: 2010-05-26 10:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
Thank you for reading!!!!

/waves in ninja-like fashion

Date: 2010-05-25 02:57 am (UTC)
fannyfae: (18th Century)
From: [personal profile] fannyfae
I confess, I know very little of Doctor Who and the fandom. What I have always kept in mind when you wrote Reinette or Mme Pompadour was the historical personage. Kings Misteresses, wives and even Concubines were not ever considered "whores," except maybe by a few misguided, completely religiously and morally anal retentive idiots who know very little (if anything!) of French or European culture amongst the nobility. People who cannot be bothered with reading history in depth and consider the larger picture have no right to comment, let alone pass judgement. Further, judging these historical personages by our own moral standards does a grave disservice. Add to that, that this has been and should always be considered fiction - and very good, beautifully illustrative fiction - these people need to STFU.

*hugs* I have always admired your work, and that will never change.

Date: 2010-05-26 10:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
Thank you so much for all that! Hugs!

Date: 2010-05-25 06:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] best-served-hot.livejournal.com
This was awesome. I love the fandom points you touch on with all the hatred towards her. It will always be a favorite episode of mine. I would give a more in depth comment but I am tired and rambly.

It was still very awesome.

Date: 2010-05-26 10:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
Tired and rambly is my DEFAULT.

Hugs!

Date: 2010-05-25 09:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] radiantbaby.livejournal.com
Here from [livejournal.com profile] rude_not_ginger's journal. Thanks so much for writing this, I agree so hard on the points made.

I once posted a review about how I thought Ten's love for Reinette didn't diminish his love for Rose and was promptly shouted down by several people. I am always amazed at the venom her character garners as she is such a favorite of mine.

Oh, fandom.

Date: 2010-05-26 10:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
I am so glad you found your way here, and took a moment to read. That means a lot! I would love to read your review sometime.

Date: 2010-05-27 04:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] radiantbaby.livejournal.com
I would love to read your review sometime.

Required a bit of digging, but I found it! (http://community.livejournal.com/dwrewatch/55072.html)

I actually hadn't read it since way back then, but I'm glad I did, as I still like it and agree with what I had to say. The comments on the post itself thankfully weren't as harsh as they were on the anonymeme (where it had gotten linked at one point). I remember lots of flaming back then. *sigh*

Date: 2010-05-27 04:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
This was an absolutely wonderful read!! I just sat down and poured over every single word, and yes, especially when it hits anon territory is when people get especially violent.

I am not sure why it still gets to me so much. People are allowed to disagree. I suppose that people are just mindless with it, it feels like. And more than a bit ugly. Then too what they use as their evidence is often so, so far from what was on screen.

Thank you for taking the time to link it for me. It was the perfect nightcap!

Date: 2010-05-25 11:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seelyfey.livejournal.com
I only recently started getting into Doctor Who, but fell in love with Reinette's character. She seemed so whole as a person for having been on screen for such a short amount of time. Went in search of more info about her and how she fits into fandom and was astounded by the crazy amount of animosity regarding her. Frankly, I just don't get it and you've articulated perfectly why. Thank you!

Date: 2010-05-26 10:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
I always love meeting someone else who finds things to enjoy in her character. We are far to rare a club. And yes, there is a large pocket -- that is extremely vocal -- of animosity towards her.

Thank YOU!

Date: 2010-05-27 07:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seelyfey.livejournal.com
(grin) Hi, my name is Seelyfey and I have been a Reinette fan for approximately three weeks.

I have, in fact, gone in search of fanfic regarding the lovely lady but have only returned sadly with anti Reinette, pro Rose, stories. Any suggestions oh learned one?

Date: 2010-05-28 12:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
LOL, not THAT learned. But, I'd be happy to link you to my Teaspoon account. While it doesn't contain all my Reinette work, it does have the more DW related pieces. I'd also love to search around and find the better things I've come across out there!

http://www.whofic.com/viewuser.php?uid=4100

Thanks!

Date: 2010-05-28 07:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seelyfey.livejournal.com
Whee!!!!! (toddles off to read these new and exciting contributions) Thanks!

Date: 2010-05-26 04:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shewalks-away.livejournal.com
All this, so so much. It has always confused me so much too how many people insist that Reinette hated Rose or vice versa and just...it makes me wonder if they watched the same episode at all.

But yes, very well said and things.

Date: 2010-05-26 10:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ambitious-woman.livejournal.com
*HUGS YOU SO SO MUCH*
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